The best teachers always repeat things. In Luke 15, Jesus gives three parables that hold similar themes and applications. All three parables were addressed to the Pharisees and Scribes gathered around Jesus at the time. If you are not familiar with all three of the parables, I would almost bet that you at least know the last one Jesus gives. The parable of the Prodigal Son is one of those familiar passages of Scripture that many know, even if they have not spent much time in the Word. It is kind of like Psalm 23 or Jeremiah 29:11 in that many know it, but do we experience the depths of its application like we should?
If you are anything like me, you may have heard quire a few sermons or teachings or even read books about this parable. I do not assume that I’ll add anything profound to your understanding of this parable. But what I do hope is that you’ll see something really humbling that God showed me in this story a little less than a year ago.
Both brothers in this parable attempted to settle things in their mind regarding their situations. However, neither of them had the right to be making the choices they were. Let me explain.
The Prodigal Son
This son decided to take his inheritance early, left his father, and ended up losing all he was given. He was lonely, hungry, and ashamed. As a result of all of this, he says this: I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.” The son knows he did not just sin against his earthly father, but also against heaven. But look at the father’s response:
And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate.
The father disregarded the Son’s claim to his new identity because it was not his choice whether he was a son anymore or not.
I do not know where you are in your life or your walk with Jesus. You may feel like you have made too many mistakes or been away for too long. Please hear me when I say: It is not your choice whether you are a son or daughter of your Creator. He chose you and no matter what you do, He will always want, love, and accept you. It is not your choice whether you are still a son or daughter.
The Older Brother
His story is completely different. This brother was faithful. He was obedient. He followed the wishes and desires of his father, unlike his younger brother. However, one day he comes in, after I am sure a hard day’s work, and sees a celebration being thrown like he has never maybe experienced. The worst part is that it is for his unfaithful, irresponsible brother. The older brother gets angry. Look at verse 30: But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him! The older brother will not even acknowledge the prodigal as his brother. Just like the younger brother, the older brother made a choice he had no right to do.
If you and I are honest, there are people in our lives that frustrate us when they get their extra doses of grace or celebration. If you are anything like me, you might get discouraged and upset when a prodigal gets their celebration when you have been nothing but faithful and have not received the same fanfare. It is not our choice whether someone gets welcomed into the Kingdom or celebrated for returning. Instead we should be quick to rejoice with all of heaven over a prodigal coming home. Isn’t this exactly what Jesus was saying in his other two parables, too?
So I do not know where you are today. You may be more in the spot of the Prodigal Son or maybe with the older brother. Either way, know what is not your choice to make.
I am praying for you this morning.
– Beth
It has been an honor to write for my dad this past week. Please be praying for him now as he serves at FBC Jackson’s children and youth camp! Please pray for strength!